Being BEAUTIFUL !!

Personally I think that being beautiful should not be based on your physical appearance. Beauty comes from the inside meaning your personality, your kindness, your heart, your intelligence etc.

But having a pretty face is part of it. Being pretty doesn't mean looking like the hottest celebrity. Remember no 2 people look the same. People have different eyes, ears, nose, lips, hair texture/color, different skin colors and come from different places. Not all people have a pretty face but just keeping nice clean skin can help. Using the right moisture cremes for your face can help and not having dry lips. If you have ache do not PICK THEM or touch them. 

Not everyone had a perfect personality and is sweet. Some people are just mean and miserable, we just have to accept that. If you have a bad personality alway try to look good and clean. You cannot be mean and look ugly it doesn't look right. 

It seems as if as we age beauty is in the size of a women's body. The bigger the butt and breast is the more attractive she is. I hate to see this. And to be honest, some pretty girls are pushed aside because they are skinny or their breast is not big enough I think thats wrong. I think you should love or be attracted to a women because of her personality and not her body.

It seems as if I am going off topic with this.. But everyone has a different and or their own voww on being beautiful. 

Coming Out !!

Coming out as gay, lesbian, bisexual ,or transgender can be tough at any age, but teens have a lot more to think about. Is it safe to come out at school? Will your mom or dad reject you? Will you be kicked out of the house?

Sometimes it's better to keep it to yourself especially because of the fact that it can just be a phase. But, if you feel bad about hiding it is best to tell. Eventually your parents will have to accept you. 

"When your a teen it is a time when feelings and thoughts of sexuality become intense and confusing. For many gay teens, feeling different from their friends creates a pressure to fit in and keep their sexual orientation secret. They can fear rejection, discrimination and even violence. It is important to create a space of safety and acceptance for them to better understand their feelings". 


















When coming out it is best to just get straight to the point instead of going around it. Just say "IM GAY" or "IM A LESBIAN". If someone really loves you they will accept you for you. Sexual Orientation shouldn't be the reason your mom doesn't like you. But not all moms are the same, it will take time and patience. LOVE YOURSELF and who you are. 

Having a boyfriend in Highschool

Once you get to highschool you kind of see things differently, and as you age you will probably see boys way differently than you seen them in elementary and middle school. Its nothing wrong with having a boy friend, if its not stressing you out or messing with your school work than your perfectly fine. But here is some thing to remember when starting this relationship. 

Do not ever let any boy change you, if a boy cannot accept you for you than you should leave him and find someone who makes you comfortable even as hard as it sounds. 

Do not ever force a relationship, if a boy doesn't like you accept that and MOVE ON. Don't be annoying to the point where he feels like he is obligated to be with you, because if he is not happy most likely he will cheat and you will be heart broken. 

Do not pick him over your school. At the end of the day 4/10 highschool relationships work out.

 Do not cut class to be with him cause when you out there in the streets begging for money he not gonna be there he gonna be laid up in someone else's bed. 

BEING A DROP OUT IS NOT CUTE. 

Lastly, be committed. If you know you can be committed don't even get into that relationship just talk, cause at the end of the day and as sexist as this sounds a cheating girl always look worst than a cheating boy !! But yeah, find a bae but don't stress it relax have fun... And don't be pressured into doing anything you don't wanna do.

Wax or Thread ?

When you wax, a hard OR soft wax is applied to your face (lip, chin, eyebrow, sometimes sideburns). If it’s a hard wax, your aesthetician will wait for it to harden, if it’s soft then a cloth strip will be placed over the wax. Then, the wax is unceremoniously ripped off, taking with it all that unsightly facial hair.

Threading is much less involved, but much more of an art. The only tool your professional will use is a thread. That’s it. The thread is then twisted around each other in a loop, in a triangle shape around their neck and sometimes their mouth. The part that actually removes the hair is where the two threads twist around each other between their fingers. This twisting action, when rolled over the skin, will pick up and rip out the hair from it’s follicle.
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A wax and thread both cost around the same price but will have your eyebrows on FLEEK. I never actually threaded my eyebrows but I plan to do so in a few days. I usually wax and waxing doesn't really hurts its painless and fast. Only problem I have is after I wax I get bumps around my eyebrows. Leave comments on what you think about threading and or waxing !!

Bad Hair Day ?

It doesn't matter how good you look in life there will always be that one bad hair day, and sadly you are going to have to leave your place of comfort and face the world. Honestly, no one really cares how your hair looks. But here are a few tips to helping you conquer and be the queen of your bad hair days. (Natural hair)

1. WEAR IT IN A FRO.
The afro has been around for quite sometime it was mostly popular in the 90s and now in 2015 is becoming a new style.

2. Wrap your hair with a pretty fancy scarf !! You can tie a bow or a bun shape in the front to give you more of a sassy look.

3. Pomp and Roll
Divide your hair into two parts from ear to ear, then gel up your edges so that they are smooth. Roll the back section into a tight twist and pin. Take the front half and tuck it into a pompadour. You can lean it to the left, the right, reverse it so that it’s pushed back or let it hang smack dab in the middle

4. French braids or even corn rows, just make sure to have edge control to give you a sleek look

5. Frohawk
Super easy style for those having a my-hair-is outta-control day. Just slick/brush up those sides, pin them (the small combs are everything as well) in place and tease the middle for extra flare. (You can braid/twist the hawk section to add more texture if you please)

6. Pony Puff
Get a super sturdy elastic band and slowly roll it up on your head so that it pushes your hair into a pony—roll until you reach the desired tightness. Smooth out your edges and you’re done!

Remember on any bad hair day always add earrings, and a little make-up and a nice outfit to enhance your look

Nails !!

Acrylic nails have become the new trend, people of all ages have acrylic nails. You can get your nails done at any Nail Solan in NYC the prices usually start at $12 to $50+ depending on the style, length, nail polish type etc. Gel nail polish usually is more expensive than regular nail polish but people usually go for gel because of the glossy, smooth luxurious look and because it last longer than regular nail polish and doesn't really get smudged or chipped. If you are on a budget go for regular nail polish !! If not spend that money girl 👍. Getting your nails done will give you a finish look every time. It will enhance the appearance of your hands, who doesn't like a pretty hand ? A trip to the nail solan can be pretty stressful at times especially if you don't know what colors, styles and lengths you want. It's better if you have this stuff planned out in advice. Taking off your nails can be a process at times. Sometime it can lead to damage and try nasty looking nails. If after you remove your nails it looks dry add a little olive oil to your nails. In all, get your nails down you deserve it !! Look fabulous and be glamorous 👑💓

Stretching Natural Hair

Stretching Natural Hair..
If you have natural hair like mines you know the struggle after you wash your hair and it shrinks.

Shrinkage is basically the worst. Its like your hair is WAY more easier when it is wet, but once it dries your hair dries up and get so hard and crunchy and combs hurt. There are many methods to stretch out your hair with no heat. But, if you are fine with applying heat to your hair you can always use the blow dryer after washing your hair, but always make sure your hair is moisturized before blow drying.

One of my favorite methods to stretch out my hair is the thread or yarn method. After washing your hair apply your favorite leave in conditioner and section your hair. You can either choose to do large parts or little parts depending on how much time you have on your hands. Just remember that the smaller the sections the more time it will take but you will be happy with your results, and the bigger the sections is probably the less stretched your hair will be. You tube shows you how to stretch your hair with Thread or yarn.

HAVE FUN !!

Them Edges !!

Edges ! Edges look good on everyone and anyone, but not all people have very good edges. Lost of edges can be caused by tight pony tails, cornrows and or box braids. Lost of edges can also be to harsh chemicals in perm. But here are some tips to get your edges laid. Depending on how bad your edges are...

VERY BAD: Purchase a edge control. Buying edge control can be very difficult do not buy a edge control that's cheap. Mostly the cheap ones will leave a nasty white cakey frosting look on your edges. Purchase a edge control like ECO styler or Olive Oil edge control, Dr. Miracles etc. Put some on your edges and brush back using a soft brush. Hard brushes can pull out your edges. Wrap your hairline with a satin scarf at night a cotton bandana is no good. And wake up and remove the scarf if you are not happy with your results add more.

Regular edges: for regular edges, edge control is a CHOICE and not a option. You can simply use a large brush to brush your edges back. Then use a toothbrush to pull down you baby hairs. And wrap your hair with a satin scarf. And remove it in the morning

Remember if you are missing edges it is always good to message those areas with Coconut oil and not be so harsh.

Happy Edging !! LOL

Lip gloss and Eyeliner

Make up Tips !! 

Not every girl is not into lipstick and perfume. Just a handful, but sometimes it doesn't hurt to try a little lip gloss and eyeliner to enhance your natural look. A little of both wont give you the cakey look but more of a cute simple look. 

Remember not everyone can achieve this look, so it will take time a patience. If at first you dont succeed TRY TRY AGAIN. Once you get it you will be a pro at it

A little bit of lip gloss is cute. Remember not to put to much lip gloss cause then it will look like you were eating a mayo sandwich LOL. There is no tips to putting on lip gloss its just like applying chop stick but with more gloss !! Remember you are beautiful the way you are

Hey Guys

HEY, Guys I'm Nerma.. I am the average 15 year old. But, have a weird addiction to MAKE UP, HAIR, CLOTHES AND ALL GIRLY STUFF. Basically like some to most teen age girls. This blog will be able EVERYTHING... Because us girls go there ALOT... from school, boys, problems, BFFs and shopping. This is basically a fun little page and I hope you ENJOY IT ! LOTs of hugs and kisses and LOVEEE..